Notre Dame’s Non-Heteronormative Welcome Week

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In our last two bulletins, we cited the University’s embrace of Pride Month and the Notre Dame Alumni Association’s establishment of an official alumni LGBTQ “affinity group” as evidence of a cultural shift at the University from treatment of homosexuals with “respect and compassion,” which the Church demands, toward acceptance of same-sex marriage and homosexual sex, which the Church condemns. We now continue this analysis with a report on how the administration’s approach to “diversity and inclusion” in Welcome Week for freshmen has reflected this subversion of Church teaching.

For the most part, we rely on an Irish Rover report about Welcome Week, but we open with a related Notre Dame Observer report about a revelatory change in the Welcome Week program.

Welcome Week’s “Inclusivity” and “Allyship” Messaging

Welcome Week and its companion Kickoff ND! introduce the University to freshmen with a series of events and activities such as the Debartolo Performing Arts Center “Art Attack,” which promoted its “arts crawl” for students with the profane collage below.

One tradition of Welcome Week has been song and dance numbers –“serenades” – composed by freshmen of the various dormitories and performed for each other.

But not this year. Lauren Donahue of the Division of Student Affairs and Program Director for New Student Engagement ruled them out because past serenades have conveyed “heteronormative messages that created an unwelcoming or awkward environment for many students.”

Messages, that is, reflecting the view that “heterosexuality is the only normal and natural expression of sexuality.”

Thus, Ms. Donahue followed Gender Studies, student government, the Director of Staff Diversity and Inclusion, the Gay and Lesbian Alumni Club of Notre Dame, and their allies in opposition to a heteronormative Notre Dame in ways we have recorded.

“Kind of a bummer,” declared an evidently heteronormative female student and Welcome Week planner.

Indeed.

The Heteronormative Catholic Church

To the extent that Notre Dame is not heteronormative, it is not Catholic. “Homosexual acts,” the Church teaches, are “acts of grave depravity” that are “intrinsically disordered” and “contrary to the natural law,” and accordingly “Under no circumstances can they be approved.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2537)

The Church’s related and essential instruction that homosexuals “must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity” and that “every sign of unjust discrimination should be avoided” guides individuals and institutions in how to act toward homosexuals, but it does not make its fundamental teaching any less heteronormative.

“Inclusivity and Diversity” Subverting Catholic Identity

Now we turn to the Irish Rover investigative report on the training of the students serving on the Welcome Week committees, where we again meet Ms. Donahue, the co-director of the committees.

We commend to you the entire article, which we reproduce in the Appendix with the permission of The Irish Rover, for a detailed account of the training provided students on the committee by Ms. Donahue and her associate Andrew Whittington. In sum, the report recounts how, according to a number of student participants, the instructors’ single-minded dedication to “inclusivity and diversity” subverted an introduction to Notre Dame’s Catholic identity for fear it would offend.

One student reported, for example:

[quote]I can’t recall one time when the word “Catholic” was said without a negative connotation…[T]he majority of the time spent considering Catholicism was when dealing with how to make others not feel uncomfortable by the Catholic identity of Notre Dame. The only real goals…were to be inclusive (have inclusive thoughts, use inclusive language) and to be an ‘ally’ to others.[/quote]

Another student:

[quote]The committee’s purpose has been presented to us as more of a “woke” collection of students who are meant to spread the message of our secular culture that embraces relativistic acceptance with no holds barred.[/quote]

She added:

[quote]Our training included an exhaustive list of rules, such as wearing BLM or ally pins and not assuming gender.[/quote]

And LGBTQ pins as well, according to another student:

[quote]I’m being asked to wear visible signs of my allyship—not to Catholic teaching, but to an allyship with the LGBTQ+ movement, despite the numerous conflicting views between the two that have not been addressed.[/quote]

Again, another student:

[quote]I believe the committee as a whole seeks to severely minimize the Catholic identity of the University in a well-intentioned yet destructive effort to preemptively pursue the comfort of non-Catholic new students.[/quote]

Concurring, another student added:

[quote]There was never any conversation…on how to promote and uphold the Catholic mission of the school. At Notre Dame, especially when trying to display our values (which is the goal of the committee), we ought to celebrate the Catholic tradition and mission of the University, not ‘deal’ with it.[/quote]

Finally, the student who noted she had been encouraged to wear a symbol showing she was an LGBTQ ally told the Rover that the instruction warning against assuming anything about a student’s religion “suppresses any kind of conversation surrounding our Catholic identity and how students who attend Notre Dame are going to be engaging with Catholicism on some level.”

She continued:

[quote]The training we received did offer a history lesson of the founding of Holy Cross and the holiness of St. Andre Bessette, but it immediately used this as a springboard into our two pillars of “allyship” and “inclusion” that had no visible anchoring in Catholic teachings, and instead advocated for inclusion seemingly at the expense of our identity as a Catholic institution. I feel little support for any programming that would introduce students to the Catholic character of the university.[/quote]

Conclusion

While there were a few Catholic events during a packed week largely devoted to orientation, social gatherings, and entertainment – a Mass, a visit to the Grotto, a retreat – none countered the message that the University’s dedication to “inclusion” trumps its dedication to Catholic doctrine. To the contrary, the events included a “LGBT Welcome Back Picnic” and a “Trivia Night” about Schitt’s Creek, a TV show praised as “a role model for queer families.”

More generally, if the students assigned to accompany the freshmen during the week do not seem to cherish the Catholic character of the school, they will not inspire the Catholic freshmen to participate in the life of the Church or the non-Catholics to respect it.

In sum, the Welcome Week episode is one more example of the way in which the “diversity and inclusion” campaign that has swiftly come to dominate higher education can undermine the Catholic identity and mission of the University of Notre Dame.

Postscript

Storytelling and Welcome Week

The University has recently sent a volley of gift solicitations in the form of short and hopefully appealing stories about Notre Dame. At least two recent messages were about Welcome Week, one signed by parents of an alumnus. Learning one of the parents might be a university officer, we asked. Understandably but regrettably, there was no response. He is in fact Associate Vice President, Development, for Storytelling and Engagement. (Did they test market that title? Just asking.)


Students voice concerns about restructured Welcome Week

[su_expand more_text=”Continue reading” less_text=”Hide” height=”60″]The University of Notre Dame has rebranded their annual Welcome Week Committee as the St. Andre Committee, built upon the pillars of allyship and inclusion.

Despite renaming the committee after a saint of the Catholic Church, several student members of this committee expressed concerns that the Welcome Week programming will not properly introduce the incoming class of students to the Catholic identity of Notre Dame, and that it even goes expressly against Catholic teaching. Lauren Donahue and Andrew Whittington, co-directors of the committee, spoke with the Rover about these students’ concerns.

St Andre’s Witness of Welcoming

Every fall, incoming students and a volunteer group of returning students arrive on campus the week before classes begin for Welcome Week. In a May 2021 meeting, Lauren Donahue, the Program Director for New Student Engagement, explained the goals and plans for this fall’s Welcome Week to the volunteers.

Donahue encouraged those volunteering to embody the spirit of St Andre Bessette, the only canonized member of the Congregation of the Holy Cross and the committee’s namesake, stating, “The life that he lived expresses ideals that we all should live on a daily basis.” St Andre was the doorkeeper of his community of Holy Cross priests and brothers, Donahue explained, and the students of Notre Dame ought to strive to imitate the way he welcomed visitors to his community when encountering the Notre Dame Class of 2025.

“St Andre took on this ministry of welcoming people at the door, and he got to know the folks as they would come to this place—this church and the school that they were running there,” she continued. “He was able to have a very profound impact on people’s lives in the simplest ways which he engaged with people: in leading and taking on these small tasks with zeal, in creating a space that was inclusive and kind and welcoming for folks—a place where they felt safe and comfortable.”

Understanding the Pillars of “Allyship” and “Inclusion”

This introduction to the committee’s namesake preceded the main content of the meeting, which instructed students about how to embody this spirit of inclusion, kindness, and welcoming which St Andre was said to exemplify. However, several students at the meeting noted that the use of St Andre’s name was the only way in which Catholicism was a part of this discussion.

One student told the Rover, “I recognize the effort of the administration to invoke the Catholic identity of the school through the name of the committee, but unfortunately, from my perspective, that is as far as the committee goes to advocate for the Catholic mission. At the evening of training they had us attend a few weeks ago, I can’t recall one time when the word “Catholic” was said without a negative connotation […] Besides speaking on St. Andre, the majority of the time spent considering Catholicism was when dealing with how to make others not feel uncomfortable by the Catholic identity of Notre Dame.”

This student continued, “The only real goals that were laid out for us were to be inclusive (have inclusive thoughts, use inclusive language) and to be an “ally” towards others. Not only are these highly subjective words, but they also offer no real insight on how to welcome others to campus.”

On a slide which displayed the rainbow Pride flag, the presentation defined “Ally” as “a person within a given community who sits on the side of social power or privilege and works to create a space for the genuine voices of those who don’t have that privilege to come through.” Donahue encouraged the students in the meeting to “think through tangible action items that you can even take beginning tonight and tomorrow to continue being an active ally to our students.”

In the context of Welcome Week itself, Donahue told the students how they could do this: “Using inclusive language—not assuming that all of our students are straight, not assuming the gender of our students or their identity in a variety of ways—so really being conscientious of the language that you use—I think is key and goes a long way.” She continued, “I would think about this in the way that you word icebreakers and team builders, to be sure that you’re not assuming an identity of someone or creating a space where someone might out themselves in particular ways of who they are.”

She later added, “I think it’s also having inclusive thoughts and not being like, ‘Oh my God this woman brought a whole moving truck of things,’ or thinking how this person brought nothing with them to college, or making assumptions in your mind. Be conscientious of even the thoughts that you have and really stick to our inherent values that we have articulated.”

Donahue told the Rover, “I view my work as honoring the inherent dignity that every individual has in the likeness and image of God, and I think conversations about allyship and inclusion go hand in hand to that for me. The characteristics of what it means to be an ally and what it means to be inclusive feels incredibly rooted in the way that I live out my Catholic faith, and I think it is one that the university strives for similarly—that all are welcome at the Eucharistic table. If you imagine the way that Jesus broke bread, who he was breaking bread with was just incredibly inclusive.”

Regarding allyship and inclusion, she continued, “[With] those two words in and of itself, I don’t feel that there’s a dissonance for me with the Catholic values that we were using in the meeting and seeking to foster for all of our students.”

Student Reactions

Several student members of the committee who were in attendance strongly disagreed. One such student informed the Rover via email, “The strongest concern I have is with the usage of words like “allyship” and “inclusion” as being our pillars. [These] words have originated out of a modern secular culture that has given them a lot of baggage to the point where I feel a Catholic institution should not use them as a foundation for a major programming event.”

This student continued, “The committee’s purpose has been presented to us as more of a “woke” collection of students who are meant to spread the message of our secular culture that embraces relativistic acceptance with no holds barred. Our training included an exhaustive list of rules, such as wearing BLM or ally pins and not assuming gender.”

Another member of the committee, Dorrian Cohen, told the Rover, “I believe the committee as a whole seeks to severely minimize the Catholic identity of the University in a well-intentioned yet destructive effort to preemptively pursue the comfort of non-Catholic new students.”

Rising sophomore Nicholas Schmitz concurred: “We were told to only plan events that were open to all religious traditions, and our breakout session focused on things we can do to make non-Catholic students feel welcome. These are good conversations to have and are not bad themselves; however, there was never any conversation on how the Faith and the Catholic mission of the school could be solutions to these problems, or any conversations on how to promote and uphold the Catholic mission of the school. At Notre Dame, especially when trying to display our values (which is the goal of the committee), we ought to celebrate the Catholic tradition and mission of the University, not ‘deal’ with it.”

Furthermore, one student added, “One of the best ways in which I found community and brotherhood in my dorm was through attending Mass and participating in faith formation groups. After hearing the language and goals of the St. Andre committee at the meeting a few weeks ago, I feel discouraged from trying to provide a similar experience for the freshman. It would not be ‘inclusive’ as a member of the St. Andre committee to encourage new students to go to Mass or to schedule events or groups grounded in the Faith.”

Responses From the Administration

In response to this last statement, Andrew Whittington, Program Director for First Year Student Engagement, told the Rover, “I think I speak for both Lauren [Donahue] and myself when I say, we constantly want to invite students into deeper relationship with God, deeper relationship with themselves, deeper knowledge of themselves, deeper relationship with the men and women around them. But whenever that invitation becomes an expectation that you do what I ask of you or that you conform to my idea of what you should be, I think that that dynamic changes. That’s no longer an invitation so much as a requirement. I would encourage all of our Andre Committee members to constantly invite students into what they are most passionate about, what they see are their most important aspects of their Notre Dame experience.”

Donahue elaborated, “I think it is an inclusive act to come to a Mass, to come to a faith sharing group. If a student feels that that is something that they can’t do or something that they shouldn’t be doing, then that is very opposite of the inclusive community we are trying to create […] what makes this place [Notre Dame] so beautiful is that we can honor a variety of faith traditions.”

Problematic Conclusions

One final student whom the Rover interviewed about the St. Andre Committee, however, further spoke to this concern which Donahue sought to reconcile. This student informed the Rover that the committee members were instructed that they were “not meant to assume religion, supposedly to prevent exclusion of our non-Catholic community members on campus.”

She expressed concerns that “this particularly seemed to present religion (including Catholicism) as merely an aspect of someone’s identity, instead of something greater. This suppresses any kind of conversation surrounding our Catholic identity and how students who attend Notre Dame are going to be engaging with Catholicism on some level. The training we received did offer a history lesson of the founding of Holy Cross and the holiness of St. Andre Bessette, but it immediately used this as a springboard into our two pillars of “allyship” and “inclusion” that had no visible anchoring in Catholic teachings, and instead advocated for inclusion seemingly at the expense of our identity as a Catholic institution. In my own committee, I feel little support for any programming that would introduce students to the Catholic character of the university. I’m being asked to wear visible signs of my allyship—not to Catholic teaching, but to an allyship with the LGBTQ+ movement, despite the numerous conflicting views between the two that have not been addressed.”

The members of the St. Andre Committee will receive further instructions and training for Welcome Week at a later date before arriving on campus during the third week of August. The Rover will report on any significant developments in the administration’s plans for introducing the incoming students to the Catholic identity of Notre Dame.

Joe DeReuil is a sophomore studying in the Program of Liberal Studies, Classics, and Constitutional Studies. This fall, he will be found on God Quad observing the construction on his beloved Sorin College. He is excited to meet the Class of 2025 and would love to hear from them or anyone else at wdereuil@nd.edu.[/su_expand]


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